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Johnsco21
@johnsco21
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Joined: Mar 27, 2025
Last seen: Jun 6, 2026
Topics: 17 / Replies: 60
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RE: Has anyone successfully told their partner about BID? How did you do it?

I feel for you. You seem to be very high on The Wave. That is not a good place to be. It can get totally consuming up there. You liked the German ...

15 hours ago
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RE: Has anyone successfully told their partner about BID? How did you do it?

It is hard for anyone outside the BID community to understand that one has a need. It is not a choice that one has but a need. It is good you were a...

2 days ago
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RE: Introducing myself 💅

You should not feel ashamed of suffering from BID or having the need to be an amputee. BID is not a choice, but it is what your brain tells you how y...

1 week ago
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RE: Could there be a genetic link with BID?

I would say the trigger would be more to the point that one would have the idea, maybe at an early age, that their body is somehow wrong. Seeing some...

1 week ago
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RE: Aesthetics as related to one's BID needs.

As far as BID goes, most people have some idea of what their bodies' needs are. They generally stop wanting more once they achieve what they need, th...

1 week ago
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RE: Could there be a genetic link with BID?

For sure, BID, along with GD and Autism, is neurodivergent. I think we see if one has an Autistic child, there is a chance that one of their other ch...

3 weeks ago
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RE: Hi, LBKA, 36... Still struggling with BID

So you are saying you dropped all the way down and did not feel the need and did not suffer the dysphonia for 5 years? Now you are starting to feel t...

1 month ago
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RE: Howdy

Welcome to the forum. I must say that BID does get worse as one gets older. The only cure is to get the body one feels they need. You could try the...

2 months ago
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RE: The Wave

@mattw22 Very good @mattw22. I have read most of the posts people have made over the years in the forums, so I got some insight into what people go ...

2 months ago
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RE: BID disability is not a choice.

@lefty Very good. Yes, suffering from BID is a bitch, but as I say, the worst part of suffering from BID is not that one would be "disabled" if they ...

3 months ago
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RE: BID disability is not a choice.

@ mattw22 most ride The Wave, as far as I can see. Some get stuck at the top. That is really bad. Just think if you are always on top with no reli...

3 months ago
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RE: BID disability is not a choice.

@Matthew You must understand how bad it is to suffer from BID. The obsessive thoughts can get so bad that they can interfere with one's life. Ther...

3 months ago
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RE: My intro

Good, you found your way here and gave your story of how BID affects you and your life. People here need to tell how the BID affects them. Yes, BID ...

4 months ago
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RE: BID disability is not a choice.

@leandro A lot of people are high on The Wave these days on They are conducting a daily poll, and you can see from that that about half of the people ...

5 months ago
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